It is a shame I am your lover.

Tuesday, March 04, 2008, 7:39 PM

what a monotonous day can do to you.

today is officially another boring day. because supposedly we are to do a presentation which we did not do because our dear teacher decided not to come to our class. so we practically sat throughout the whole of the four straight period. and me being a nice girl that i am, decided to interact with the clan-mates. they turn out to be darn funny and adorable, only i prefer flintstones 2 because there's my friends. yeahh but after that i got real bored, so i decided to read this freak book about teens that i forgot the title about that my dear friend, desmond is reading. its kinda weird seeing a guy reading that kinda book. so i was really laughing at him. turns out to be a big mistake. because the book turns out to be real nice. here are some of the things i feel is a problem to kids past-adays and nowadays. its an extract.

Friend-centered.
there's nothing better than belonging to a great group of friends and nothing worse than feeling like an outcast. friends are important but should never become your center. why? well, occasionally they are fickle. now or then they are fake. sometimes they talk behind your back or develop new friendships and forget yours. they have moodswings. they move.
in addition, if you base your identity on having friends, being accepted, and being popular, you may find yourself compromising your standards or changing them every weekend to accomodate your friends.
believe it or not, the day will come when friends will not be the biggest thing in your life. during high school i had a fabulous group of friends. we did everything together - swam in illegal canals, gorged at all-you-can-eat-buffets, water-skied in the dark, dated each other's girlfriends - you name it. i loved these guys. i felt that we'd be friends forever.
after graduating from high school and moving away, however, i've been amazed at how seldom we see each other. we live far apart, and new relationships, jobs and family take up our time. as a teen, i could never have fathomed this.
make as many friends as you can, but don't build your life on them. its an unstable foundation.

Boyfriend/Girlfriend-centered.
you can usually tell when a couple becomes centered on each other because they are forever breaking up and getting back together. although their relationship has deteriorated, their emotional lives and identitites are so intertwined that they can never fully let go of each other.
believe me, you'll be a better girlfriend or boyfriend if you are not centered on your partner. independence is more attractive than dependence. besides, centering your life on another doesnt show that you love them, only that you're dependent on them.
have as many girlfriends or boyfriends as you like, just dont get obsessed with or centered on them, because, although there are exceptions, these relationships are usually about as stable as yo-yo.

yeah so that is what i read. it applies mostly to what is happening in my life to be exact. so yeah. thanks desmond!! so after that we got break which was atrocious because i think the whole school has the same break-time. so we have to wait for sometime to get a seat. yeahh. ate the nasi ayam again. was sick and tired of the foods really. then after that we had the best bet game. we did it last year so i was quite familiar with it. but this year was kinda boring except for the deal and no deal game. i dont believe there is a theory behind it. and they even proved it to me, the utter-maths-idiot. hahahahahahahahahahahah!

then after school, the flat nerd, diyanah and me walk around at jurong point. they are so funny larh. i so cannot stop laughing whenever i'm with them. so i had a total nice day overall. thanks to them larh kan.

ps: i miss you sangat2 larh sayang. muackies!

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it is a shame I am your lover



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